Dane Cook on Women.

Dane Cook presents why women always win fights =]; we rule.

shit.

oops... so i backed into a ditch this morning, and ran over a metal pole.. that came THROUGH the backseat of my car.... and somehow i still tried to get out.. reverse and drive, over and over again... and now its not just a little hole on my car... its a long one.

i miss my soldier. 33days. im thankful for our soldiers.

happy thanksgiving, i hope everyones thankful for someone-- Im thankful for my family and friends but also for the love of my life who cannot be with me today; because hes in iraq- but hes on my mind; and i miss him so much, especially when im with our families... its hard,. but im thankful for the sacrafice him and every other soldier make; and their families who are missing them today. godbless.



You take a warm shower to help you wake up.
He goes days or weeks without running water.






You complain of a "headache", and call in sick.
He gets shot at as others are hit, and keeps moving forward.





You put on your anti war/don't support the troops shirt, and go meet up with your friends.
He still fights for your right to wear that shirt.






You talk trash about your "buddies" that aren't with you.
He knows he may not see some of his buddies again.






You walk down the beach, staring at all the pretty girls.
He patrols the streets, searching for insurgents and terrorists.





You complain about how hot it is.
He wears his heavy gear, not daring to take off his helmet to wipe his brow




You go out to lunch, and complain because the restaurant got your order wrong.
He doesn't get to eat today.




Your maid makes your bed and washes your clothes.
He wears the same things for weeks, but makes sure his weapons are clean.





You go to the mall and get your hair redone.
He doesn't have time to brush his teeth today.






You're angry because your class ran 5 minutes over.
He's told he will be held over an extra 2 months.





You call your girlfriend and set a date for tonight.
He waits for the mail to see if there is a letter from home.






You hug and kiss your girlfriend, like you do everyday.
He holds his letter close and smells his love's perfume.





You roll your eyes as a baby cries.
He gets a letter with pictures of his new child, and wonders if they'll ever meet.





You criticize your government, and say that war never solves anything.
He sees the innocent tortured and killed by their own people and remembers why he is fighting.




You hear the jokes about the war, and make fun of men like him.
He hears the gunfire, bombs and screams of the wounded.



You see only what the media wants you to see.
He sees the broken bodies lying around him




You are asked to go to the store by your parents. You don't.
He does exactly what he is told even if it puts his life in danger.





You stay at home and watch TV.
He takes whatever time he is given to call, write home, sleep, and eat.

Steven Carlton.

Before you left i made a promise

id wait for you, and be here when you got back

and now youre a million miles away

and its dark where I am,

the time apart has hit me, and i realize how hard it is

i wonder if the sun has risen where you are

I miss the way my neck hurts in the morning,

from your arm being under it all night.

and that bed, its too big without you

i know the distance is a factor

but i stretch as often as i can

my goal is to reach your hands any day now

Its hard enough that youre gone

but its been 3 weeks since youve called

its hard to not know how your doing, or if youre safe

These faces that surround me give me no comfort,

its like i dont know anyone

Im walking around on idle;

im just living day to day until you get back

Your familiar face is the only face i need to see, for the rest of my life

What good is seeing if my eyes arent looking at you,

and what good are my arms if they arent holding you,

nothing is worth while without you, you give everything a purpose

I'll be here when you come back,

and i'll stay when your home,

it doesnt matter where you are; with me or overseas

as much as distance is a factor

the good outweighs the bad

nothings going to change the way i feel

Im a girl of my word; one more month and you'll be back

and i'll be here, waiting, patiently until then.

Charley Ann Marie Newvine

Charley Ann-Marie Newvine<3 [my gorgeous niece]

I will do anything* for her, shes my little princess.

badddd weeek

As much as i love this time of the year, i was just reminded how much i dont like it at the same time. Ive been so sick since last sunday its unreal. I have a double ear infection and strep throat, i cant take it when i blow my nose and my ears pop =[ it hurrrttss.
annnnd i got 2 tickets sunday on my way home, a speeding ticket and a 'drivers view obscurred' or some shit.. i am LIVID.


i am not having a good week.

'bows were made for girly girls like me'

Being a girl...
well i saw this picture and thought it would make for the perfect topic.
I would have to say that i love being a girl and i would never change that ever,. We may have some negative characteristics, but for the most part i think were pretty perfect =] ha.
we can love the color pink, which is amazing becuase its the best color in the world, and we can sit around and get COMPLETELY pampered and its okay, we can go shopping and nobody expects differently of us =] were always* daddys little girl and our mothers little dancer. =] No matter what we can be babied and no one complains or makes fun of us. =] We can get away with just about anything.,
i just think hands down that being a girl is amazing. =]

i found this on a website- thought i should post it, it has a lot of good points,.

A Good Relationship

10. You feel good about yourself and your world
A good relationship makes you feel great. It should fill in your "gaps"
and make you feel whole. It should give you emotional strength and help you
to feel that everything is ok - and will continue to be. Another good sign
is that you're better able to survive disasters at work, at home, etc. -
not because you know someone will be there to solve them, but because you
know that YOU can.

9. You look forward to spending time together
Far too many couples stay together out of habit. They don't really look
forward to being together and try to find ways to avoid it. For example,
they always try to include other friends, go to an event so that they'll
have something to do, etc. Another sign is fear of the "conversation
lag" where nobody has anything to say. If your relationship is "right",
you'll enjoy spending quality time together - even when it's quiet.

8. You respect your partner, and "talk him or her up"
Is there anyone that agrees with everything someone else says or thinks?
I can tell you - nobody agrees with everything I say!) There's no reason
you have to agree with everything your partner says or thinks either.
However, you should RESPECT them for it - right or wrong.
Further, when you respect someone - really respect them - you find
yourself "talking them up" to people. You say things like, "You know, my
girlfriend said something that I don't agree with, but it really made me
think" or
My husband really knows about wood working - you should ask him about it."
What this really shows is your focus - if you find you're always talking
about yourself, you're not focused on your partner - or the relationship.

7. You are really interested in what he or she thinks
Along with respect, you'll find that you are interested in your
partner's thoughts on different things - and you ask. You might have heard
the
President of your company say something and you ask your wife to get her
take on it. Or, you may have come up with an idea that you want your
boyfriend to think about - and you're not afraid of getting shot down.

6. You are aware of, but ignore their quirks
Everyone has his or her little quirks. Your partner's
quirks might even appear cute to you, or at least harmless. If they're
getting to you, you should look more closely at your relationship in
general.

5. Problems don't make you think about breaking up
All relationships have problems. It's natural and healthy. However, if
every time you fight you feel ready to break up, you should re-think your
relationship. People that have good, solid relationships see disagreements
as a chance to learn more about their lover, and to get closer. Thus,
they don't fear them, but they don't create them either!

4. You aren't scared about losing him or her
Once you start investing your feelings in a relationship you risk being
hurt. This isn't my rule - it's just the way it is. However, if you
dwell on the possibility of being hurt, you can't really enjoy the
relationship.
Further, you shouldn't be concerned that your lover isn't happy. If the
relationship is secure - you'll know it.

3. You're together "just because"
Many people start dating and then coordinate their lives such that they
have to be together - either for finances, kids, family, work, the dog, etc.
Is there something keeping your relationship together? If you're together
just because you both want to be, you've got a good reason to stay together!
If you're together because you have to be, you'll likely to start having
problems.

2. You appreciate other attractive people, but aren't interested in them
There is someone more attractive than your boyfriend, girlfriend,
husband or wife. I don't care whom you're with! If your relationship is
good, you
still like the way other people look, but don't find it necessary to compare
them to your partner. After all ...

1. You are in love
If you don't know that you're in love, you're not. Love is very
difficult to explain, but one of the best explanations I've seen is this:
"Love is when you are more concerned with the well being, safety and
happiness of someone else than your own."

That's a pretty powerful idea, and something I hope everyone gets to
experience.


-John JJ Melton

Winterrr<3

Makes you wonder, is it winter or is it fall?
Either way you see its beauty, its not in the materialistic objects that you usually find comfort in, its in that brisk air, and those bright orange leaves in your driveway, that makes you remember those cold nights where you could wear cute boots and a matching sweater.
Your mom would be home after all your classes with food and warm drinks, she had washed your favorite comforter and made your bed. Your dad is on his way home from camp with his hunting clothes on and ready for a warm, quiet evening in front of the tv. Your best friend is on her way over to sit inside, comfortable with coffee from the coffee maker she bought you. You sit inside warm and safe, but that red tree sitting outside makes you wonder.

Danielle Mary pt 2!

sooo i love my best friend so much that i decided to write another blog on her since she just left this morning. Danielle Mary Atria. =] not only is my best friend gorgeous, smart, and funny-- shes quite a fiesty one. =] Im extremely lucky that were still best friends, from 4th grade to our 2nd year in college, thats a major bond. Shes my best friend, and my mirror <3 I dont usually buy anything without her approval, =] well i just felt like writing a BFF entry again because i miss her already andddddddd i dont know =]

finally!

So Stevie finally called me yesterday!! it had been like 3 weeks since hes called me. He wasnt able to call anyone, I was the first person he called =] Hes been busy packing to send his stuff home because hes comming home in December =], He passed his physical training,but a bunch of other guys didnt so he had to take them to the gym and train them til they could!,., but they put him back on gaurd duty again this week; he had JUST got off it.... i worry about him so much being over there, i really do feel bush is an assole =] deep down, i really believe he is worthless =] Thank god its almost time for another president,. people really need to start rethinking who their voting for, did they just walk into the booth and pick a president using 'eeny meeny miney moe?' uuh. anyways im hoping he calls again soon,. I had the worst 3 weeks of my life when i didnt hear from him

hypnosis

Hypnosis, is there any REAL answer to how its done, i mean if you knew you were doing any of this, why wouldnt you laugh at yourself? i found it veryyy hard to not laugh at these videos... i couldnt imagine having to do it...

3 amazing comedians<3

Dane cook, Ralphie May, and Jeff Dunham,. All on my top for funniest comedians, they all bring something different to the table. Dane is outrageous and energetic, hes fun and young. Ralphie May is just one of those guys you can laugh at when they dont even say anything funny., and Jeff Dunham is a Ventriloquist, and he is amaziiiiing at it, i really really reallyyy think ya'll will loveee these videos! swear to you, the first one is a cartoon by dane cook, so dont get thrown off, the other 2 are the actual stand ups.

You find yourself moving on.

Im so procrastinating right now, i should so be cleaning my room and my car since im not in canton today, Saturdays are the only days im not so I should be taking advantage of it, instead im sitting here and well this seemed like a logical excuse to avoid any of that. haaaa. Anyways i got a message from Steven on myspace, his sergant died, and hes wicked upset because it was his best friend over there, i feel awful because i cant fix it and im not there., I hate when hes upset and I cant do anything about it. Hm, my dad isnt mad at me anymore, but he has yet to give me back his credit card.... Wait, i didnt mention that yet, have I?... well a few days ago my dad got a bill in the mail for his credit card he gave to me, apparently i spent way more then he thought i would, and he took it back from me, its not that im mad he took it from me, I just do not like it when my dad is mad at me, I feel awful. He gave it to me because he trusted me not to 'over do' it,. He didnt tell me i had a limit on it though so how was i suppose to know... I guess that just comes with growing up... I should have known i was 'over doing' it. Not to mention my phone bill was 140$ more then it should have been, god damn internet charges on cingular. I have unlimited texting and there is no way i can possibly go over my minutes with all of our minutes we have... its those hidden charges with the internet, oh well.... it happens. Im looking for a pink sony viao laptop, i guess it doesnt have to be a sony, i just want it to be pink and i know they have good ones, so if anyone knows where i can get a pink one let me know, im not too good with finding out where good electronics are,. The other night me and my friend got busted on campus, which im not looking foward to finding out what that entails.... Im so not telling my parents, ahhh.

I cant wait for steven to get home so we can move down to Texas together, im not so sure i'll like it, i dont want to get sun burnt.... hah. I just know i want to be wherever he is and i guess thats all a part of growing up, you find out who you are and what you want, & then you realize that people you've known forever don't see things they way you do. & so you keep the wonderful memories, but find yourself moving on. It's perfectly normal, or so ive heard.

Its been a hectic week, i've been going from school to work, i cant wait for the weekend... Actually i cant wait until next friday so me and Danielle Mary can go to watertown and have a girls day like we do every 2 weeks, since we have to get our nails filled every 2 weeks, it works out perfect. =] I love herrrr :)

im getting ready and then im on my way to school and then im comming home to go over and see my sister and nephew and nieceeee =]

Love <3 Steven Carlton Forsythe

I miss him everyday, and it seems like no matter how long hes gone, i only love him more. I was so afraid that when he left that the feelings would go away too, and that one of us would change our minds, but its proving otherwise, thank god. He means the world to me, and I cannot wait until hes home. Love is one of the best feelings in the world. To know that there is someone other then family and best friends that can come into your life and make such a positive impact, is an amazing thing.<3

Im just fascinated at the medical field these days, Doctors are handing out pills like there the only way to cure someone. I dont know if anyone else is aware of how quick doctors will perscribe an anti depressant or a pill for ADHD but i really think that even though doctors may know medicine, they shouldnt be able to perscribe it for psych disorders. Its very easy to trick them into giving pills, I dont know i just thought id ramble on that for a bit since i love Psychology.

Danielle Mary Atria<3

after reading Danielles' post i decided to reflect on our friendship as well. She has without a doubt been like a sister to me :) -- We won best buds of 2006 because no matter where we were in school, or out of school, nobody seen me without seeing her right there. We spent every waking moment with eachother, =] We've had our rough times but thats because we get a little protective of eachother, and i get jealous sharing her =] I love her to the moon, and she is and will always be my one-n-only true* best friend.

so i decided to post a vid of the worlds most perfect boys <3 John&Carmine Gotti; on Growing up Gotti.
They are amaziiiinggg. Im obsessed.

oh snappp.

so i was at work today and i recieved a phone call from a wierd number, so of course i answered it and i get "Is this tiffany?" ... and then "Hi, this is one of stevies friends..." and as soon as he said that i just had a million things running through my mind, of course i said "is he okay!" and thankfully i got a yesss, apparently he had one of his friends call me because his sarg. made him fly to germany but since he told me hed call he didnt want me to worry so he had his friend call, hes suppose to call from Germany tonight... well morning for him i think...

Ive been thinking a lot about moving down to Texas with him, im not so sure id like it- its way hott!. hah. But anything to be with him.

UGHHHHH

by the way; im trying to add people to my blog but my computer isnt cooperating!! =[

you'll never leave where you are, until you decide where you'd rather be, for me... its wherever you are.."

So last night i decided to go out with one of my friends and im still running on 3 hours of sleep, debating on if I want to go back out tonight or not.... Im suppose to go to Watertown with my boyfriends grandma tommorow morning and I have a birthday party to attend tommorow night. hmm.,

oh yeah- STEVIE called me yesterday. =] Thankkk godd. I asked him why he couldnt call for 3 weeks and he couldnt answer, i asked if things were safe and okay over there and he replied with "...kinda" i know it was just to make me feel somewhat better, but it didnt work. I miss him.

Army Girlfriend.

My boyfriend has been gone to iraq for a year just about, and he use to call me every 3 days at least, but i havent heard from him in over 2 weeks, its hard going about daily life when you have the weight of worry on your shoulders everyday. Ive been finding it hard to concentrate, and do anything that i use to love to do. Ive sent tons of letters, cards and pictures. Im just waiting until December when he can hopefully come home, if Bush isnt an ignorant asshole living nonchalantly, maybe his wives and daughters should be sent there for a year, and then 15 months and then be extended again for 18 months.

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