Thursday, October 25, 2007

'bows were made for girly girls like me'

Being a girl...
well i saw this picture and thought it would make for the perfect topic.
I would have to say that i love being a girl and i would never change that ever,. We may have some negative characteristics, but for the most part i think were pretty perfect =] ha.
we can love the color pink, which is amazing becuase its the best color in the world, and we can sit around and get COMPLETELY pampered and its okay, we can go shopping and nobody expects differently of us =] were always* daddys little girl and our mothers little dancer. =] No matter what we can be babied and no one complains or makes fun of us. =] We can get away with just about anything.,
i just think hands down that being a girl is amazing. =]
i found this on a website- thought i should post it, it has a lot of good points,.

A Good Relationship

10. You feel good about yourself and your world
A good relationship makes you feel great. It should fill in your "gaps"
and make you feel whole. It should give you emotional strength and help you
to feel that everything is ok - and will continue to be. Another good sign
is that you're better able to survive disasters at work, at home, etc. -
not because you know someone will be there to solve them, but because you
know that YOU can.

9. You look forward to spending time together
Far too many couples stay together out of habit. They don't really look
forward to being together and try to find ways to avoid it. For example,
they always try to include other friends, go to an event so that they'll
have something to do, etc. Another sign is fear of the "conversation
lag" where nobody has anything to say. If your relationship is "right",
you'll enjoy spending quality time together - even when it's quiet.

8. You respect your partner, and "talk him or her up"
Is there anyone that agrees with everything someone else says or thinks?
I can tell you - nobody agrees with everything I say!) There's no reason
you have to agree with everything your partner says or thinks either.
However, you should RESPECT them for it - right or wrong.
Further, when you respect someone - really respect them - you find
yourself "talking them up" to people. You say things like, "You know, my
girlfriend said something that I don't agree with, but it really made me
think" or
My husband really knows about wood working - you should ask him about it."
What this really shows is your focus - if you find you're always talking
about yourself, you're not focused on your partner - or the relationship.

7. You are really interested in what he or she thinks
Along with respect, you'll find that you are interested in your
partner's thoughts on different things - and you ask. You might have heard
the
President of your company say something and you ask your wife to get her
take on it. Or, you may have come up with an idea that you want your
boyfriend to think about - and you're not afraid of getting shot down.

6. You are aware of, but ignore their quirks
Everyone has his or her little quirks. Your partner's
quirks might even appear cute to you, or at least harmless. If they're
getting to you, you should look more closely at your relationship in
general.

5. Problems don't make you think about breaking up
All relationships have problems. It's natural and healthy. However, if
every time you fight you feel ready to break up, you should re-think your
relationship. People that have good, solid relationships see disagreements
as a chance to learn more about their lover, and to get closer. Thus,
they don't fear them, but they don't create them either!

4. You aren't scared about losing him or her
Once you start investing your feelings in a relationship you risk being
hurt. This isn't my rule - it's just the way it is. However, if you
dwell on the possibility of being hurt, you can't really enjoy the
relationship.
Further, you shouldn't be concerned that your lover isn't happy. If the
relationship is secure - you'll know it.

3. You're together "just because"
Many people start dating and then coordinate their lives such that they
have to be together - either for finances, kids, family, work, the dog, etc.
Is there something keeping your relationship together? If you're together
just because you both want to be, you've got a good reason to stay together!
If you're together because you have to be, you'll likely to start having
problems.

2. You appreciate other attractive people, but aren't interested in them
There is someone more attractive than your boyfriend, girlfriend,
husband or wife. I don't care whom you're with! If your relationship is
good, you
still like the way other people look, but don't find it necessary to compare
them to your partner. After all ...

1. You are in love
If you don't know that you're in love, you're not. Love is very
difficult to explain, but one of the best explanations I've seen is this:
"Love is when you are more concerned with the well being, safety and
happiness of someone else than your own."

That's a pretty powerful idea, and something I hope everyone gets to
experience.


-John JJ Melton

Monday, October 22, 2007

Winterrr<3


Makes you wonder, is it winter or is it fall?
Either way you see its beauty, its not in the materialistic objects that you usually find comfort in, its in that brisk air, and those bright orange leaves in your driveway, that makes you remember those cold nights where you could wear cute boots and a matching sweater.
Your mom would be home after all your classes with food and warm drinks, she had washed your favorite comforter and made your bed. Your dad is on his way home from camp with his hunting clothes on and ready for a warm, quiet evening in front of the tv. Your best friend is on her way over to sit inside, comfortable with coffee from the coffee maker she bought you. You sit inside warm and safe, but that red tree sitting outside makes you wonder.

Saturday, October 13, 2007

Danielle Mary pt 2!

sooo i love my best friend so much that i decided to write another blog on her since she just left this morning. Danielle Mary Atria. =] not only is my best friend gorgeous, smart, and funny-- shes quite a fiesty one. =] Im extremely lucky that were still best friends, from 4th grade to our 2nd year in college, thats a major bond. Shes my best friend, and my mirror <3 I dont usually buy anything without her approval, =] well i just felt like writing a BFF entry again because i miss her already andddddddd i dont know =]

Wednesday, October 10, 2007

finally!

So Stevie finally called me yesterday!! it had been like 3 weeks since hes called me. He wasnt able to call anyone, I was the first person he called =] Hes been busy packing to send his stuff home because hes comming home in December =], He passed his physical training,but a bunch of other guys didnt so he had to take them to the gym and train them til they could!,., but they put him back on gaurd duty again this week; he had JUST got off it.... i worry about him so much being over there, i really do feel bush is an assole =] deep down, i really believe he is worthless =] Thank god its almost time for another president,. people really need to start rethinking who their voting for, did they just walk into the booth and pick a president using 'eeny meeny miney moe?' uuh. anyways im hoping he calls again soon,. I had the worst 3 weeks of my life when i didnt hear from him

Saturday, October 6, 2007

hypnosis




Hypnosis, is there any REAL answer to how its done, i mean if you knew you were doing any of this, why wouldnt you laugh at yourself? i found it veryyy hard to not laugh at these videos... i couldnt imagine having to do it...

Thursday, October 4, 2007

3 amazing comedians<3

Dane cook, Ralphie May, and Jeff Dunham,. All on my top for funniest comedians, they all bring something different to the table. Dane is outrageous and energetic, hes fun and young. Ralphie May is just one of those guys you can laugh at when they dont even say anything funny., and Jeff Dunham is a Ventriloquist, and he is amaziiiiing at it, i really really reallyyy think ya'll will loveee these videos! swear to you, the first one is a cartoon by dane cook, so dont get thrown off, the other 2 are the actual stand ups.